Wisdom for your Wednesday: To fall but rise again

For Lent I”ve been reading How to Live: What the Rule of St. Benedict Teaches us About Happiness, Meaning, and Community. I’d like to share some quotations from it.

“The spiritual life is this,” a monastic elder from the Egyptian desert once said, “I rise and I fall. I rise and I fall.”

“[The desert monks] discovered ways to leaven our natural tendencies toward anger, self-absorption, greed, depression, unhealthy appetites, and obsessions. They did this not by repressing those tendencies, but by recognizing we are not our thoughts and we are not our feelings. We can redirect our thoughts and feelings into constructive actions. Doing this allows us to confront life’s inevitable turbulence with equanimity.”

“I find it helps to see life as being like a book,” Cave said. “A book is bound by its covers … so our lives are bounded by birth and death.” He continued by saying that the characters in a book know no horizons. They are not afraid of reaching the last chapter, because they only know the moments that make up their story. We humans who are characters in life “need not worry how long our story is, if it’s a comic strip or an epic,” Cave said. “The only thing that matters is that it’s a good story.”

When I find myself slipping into ego-driven anger once again, it’s time to remind myself that the source of my anger isn’t outside of me. It’s within. It’s my own bruised self-image, acting like a child who’s been denied a second helping of ice cream. Except anger isn’t the ice cream. It’s the arsenic. Humility becomes a lens that helps me recognize the damage my rages do to me and those around me. It compels me to feed my better angels, not the angry wolves inside me.

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5 Responses to Wisdom for your Wednesday: To fall but rise again

  1. What great quotes! Loved them all. I’m reading Schmemann’s Great Lent and it’s amazing. I should do a post like this; it’s an excellent idea.

  2. Sharon Barrow Wilfong says:

    Lent is a wonderful time for contemplation and meditations, isn’t it. I grew up high church, almost Catholic and I loved observing the Church year. I wish more contemporary churches would do the same.

    Years ago I read the Rules of St. Benedict for Monastic living. I read it in the wee early hours of the morning in my dorm room when it was still dark. I should try to find that book and read it again.

    • I’ve been meaning to read something in connection to the Benedictines for a while. I keep getting told that I’d make a great monk — I suppose I look like Friar Tuck! XD

      The liturgical year is a lovely rhythym to slip into. Covid completely disrupted it — it feels like Lent 2020 never ended. But Easter’s coming, and so is the end of mask mandate. 😀

  3. Marian says:

    Wonderful quotes, thanks for sharing!
    I feel like Lent can be the most challenging time of the year, maybe because it gives us a better self-awareness. I am really looking forward to Easter, too. 🙂

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